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Kassandra Lamb: Psychotherapist turned mystery author!

Happy to have mystery author Kassandra Lamb to Manic Monday. She’s the author of the exciting Kate Huntington mysteries series as well as part of the very cool misterio press, a great new resource for indie writers. I’m honored to be kicking off her blog tour for the series. Please be sure to leave her some love in the comments.

Welcome, Kassandra!

Thanks, Stacy, for having me, although I have to admit, I’m a little afraid of the dark. Something tells me you’re going to help me overcome that!

You write the Kate Huntington mystery series, centered around a psychotherapist. Tell us about Kate. Where did she come from? How much of her is based on your background as a psychotherapist?

Kate is third-generation Irish-American; her parents, who occasionally make appearances in the books, still have a bit of a brogue. She’s got the “Black Irish” combination of dark curly hair, fair skin and blue eyes. I made her Irish-American because that’s my husband’s heritage. Then I married her off to a WASP, thus the Huntington last name.

Personality-wise, Kate started out as me, or rather my ideal self. She is much more consistently caring and compassionate than I am, and she loses her temper less often and calms down a lot faster. Her role as a therapist is definitely patterned after my own experiences.

But as the series has evolved, Kate has become her own person. She’s had different experiences than mine, and they have shaped her. It never ceases to amaze me, as an author, how characters truly take on a life of their own.

Kate’s character wasn’t the actual inspiration for the series, however. That came from a disappointing platonic friendship with the real-life counterpart to my character, Rob Franklin, who is Kate’s closest friend. Writing about a healthy platonic friendship started out as a healing exercise, and the next thing I knew I was writing a novel.

Your degree is in psychology. What specific areas do you specialize in, and how do those play into your writing?

I’m retired now, but I was a trauma recovery specialist, working with adults who were dealing with emotional scar tissue from their childhoods–parental death, alcoholism in the household, physical or sexual abuse, etc.

Kate also is a trauma recovery specialist, but unlike me, she leads a much more interesting life. She has a propensity for getting into scary, sometimes downright terrifying, situations.

My stories about her are good old-fashioned whodunnits, but also with a lot of emphasis on the characters’ relationships with each other. I throw in a bit of humor as well, to lighten the mood occasionally.

My goal is to entertain first and foremost, but also to educate a bit along the way. As a reader, I love that kind of novel myself–a book that provides good entertainment and escapism, but I also know some things when I put it down that I didn’t know before, whether it’s about a certain occupation or a time in history or whatever.

In my books, I try to give short glimpses into the world of psychotherapy… what it’s like to be the client but also what’s going through the therapist’s head, something most people wouldn’t normally be privy to.

I also highlight different psychological disorders and phenomena in each book. Domestic violence and multiple personalities, which is actually called dissociative identity disorder now, in Book 1. Thus the title, Multiple Motives. And this new book deals with recovery from child sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress disorder and borderline personality disorder.

We love bad guys here at Turning The Page – tell us about yours. What’s your process of creating his character?

Hmm, that’s tough to answer without giving too much away. My villains usually operate behind the scenes, for the most part. Bad things are happening and Kate and her friends are trying to figure out who’s making them happen. They usually have an array of suspects so I’m developing the characters of a whole bunch of potential bad guys and gals.

But to get back to the question, how do I create the actual bad guy or gal’s character? When I get an idea for a book, I usually have at least a vague sense of who the villain’s going to be. I start by writing the beginning of the book, to establish the theme of the story, what it’s about.

Then I write the ending, where the true culprit is revealed. Once I know what point A and point B are, I write an outline of how I’m going to get from A to B, so that by the ending, the bad guy or gal’s motivations make sense to the reader.

Then I start writing the book. I often end up with a different opening than the original, but the ending rarely changes all that much.

You’ll have to invite me back, Stacy, when my seventh book comes out, and ask me that question again.  *slightly evil smile*  The bad guy in that one is going to be a true, make-the-hair-stand-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck villain, as in a serial killer.

You’re getting ready to launch the third book in the Kate Huntington series, Family Fallacies. It delves into some pretty intense stuff: trauma recovery, suppressed memories, and the false memory controversy. Can you tell us more about the book? How do you handle writing something with such intense issues?

I gotta admit that Family Fallacies is my favorite in the series so far, even though as you say, it covers some intense stuff. But writing about it is not all that hard, compared to 20 years of working with people who were dealing with the real thing.

Surprisingly, none of my advanced readers found it to be difficult to handle. I think that’s because there are two storylines. Weaving back and forth between them lessens the intensity considerably. I also don’t get graphic in my descriptions of the memories; that isn’t necessary for the story to make sense. And then there’s that occasional dash of humor.

One storyline is Kate’s story. She is falling in love while still struggling with grief for her late husband. She’s holding her new guy at arm’s length and he’s trying to be patient, but she’s worried he’s going to give up on her before she’s able to move forward in the relationship.

Then she starts getting anonymous notes, that go from weird and disturbing to threatening to “destroy” her family. That is Kate’s Achilles’ heel. She’s brave and strong when it comes to herself, but threats against those she loves terrify her.

Meanwhile Kate’s client, Audrey, is starting to have memories of sexual abuse bubble up into conscious awareness. She thinks the abuser is her father, but the face in the memories is not clear. Kate keeps telling her to go slow, not to try to force it, but Audrey is not a very patient person. Eventually there is a confrontation between her and her father that results in Audrey cutting off contact with her parents.

The two stories start to come together when Audrey’s parents sue Kate for supposedly planting false memories in their daughter’s head. Then one of the parties in the lawsuit gets themselves killed and now Kate is a murder suspect.

You started down your publishing journey later than some of us – what lit the spark?

Publishing, yes; writing no. I’ve been a writer, well, since I learned to write. You should see some of the poems I wrote in high school.  *laughs*  Then again, maybe you shouldn’t. They were pretty awful.

I started Multiple Motives in 1995. I had published several professional articles by then, but it was the first piece of fiction that I actually thought was worth publishing. I got about one third of the way into it and lost my momentum, partly because I had a day job and a teenager to finish raising. But mainly because I knew that I did not have the patience to deal with the publishing industry. It’s not that I can’t handle rejection; it’s that I have no tolerance for unnecessary obstacles, created by the very people who are supposed to be on your side.

Kassandra Lamb

All three Kate Huntington books are self-published. Why’d you decide to go that route? Did you query at all?

I did query some, last spring and early summer, when Multiple Motives was finished. I decided that, maybe I couldn’t handle the flawed nature of the publishing world in my early 40’s, but at almost 60, it was time to put on my big girl pants and deal with it. Meanwhile, I was cranking out the first drafts of three more books.

I hated every minute spent on the querying process, mainly because it is so much effort and so much agony for so little return. When you finally land an agent, you are still a long way away from a published book.

Then I went to a writers’ conference in late August and two little miracles happened. One of the presentations was on e-publishing. The presenter was a well-established author, with a publisher, who, for a variety of reasons, had more recently gone the self- publishing route. My eyes went wide, my mouth dropped open and I thought, “This is for me!”

The second little miracle was that I had a glass of wine with Shannon Esposito at the cocktail party at the end of the conference. We had chatted earlier in the weekend about something inane–hairdressers, I believe it was–but as we sat down to relax over a glass of chardonnay, something clicked. By the time her delightful husband came to pick her up, we were both a little looped and we had decided two things: we were going to stay in touch and we were going to check into this self-publishing thing. Her husband, Dan, very graciously invited me to join them for dinner and even managed to look interested while we talked books for the rest of the evening.

Now Shannon and I are partners in a small indie press, misterio press. And we have another mystery writer who has joined us, JoAnn Bassett. misterio press basically operates as a cooperative for indie mystery writers and our goal is to establish a reputation for top-quality self-published mysteries.

And as I’m saying all this, I’m thinking, “Wow, how far we have come in less than a year!” Shannon has two books out and they are doing very well and I’m releasing book three.

Both of us would still be sending out queries in the traditional publishing world.

What’s the best part of the self-publishing experience? The worst?

One of the best things is what I just mentioned. In traditional publishing, even if, by some miracle, we had both landed agents and publishing contracts quickly, our first books would still not be out yet. The average turn-around from contract signing to book hits the shelves is at least a year.

With self-publishing, you forego the whole seeking an agent and publisher part. You hire your own professional editor to polish your work; you get a good cover artist and e-book formatting company lined up, if you don’t have the talent to do those things yourself, and you can have your baby out there within months. And it’s not prohibitively expensive. My average cost per e-book is $1,000. And it’s going to be less than that in the future, because a lot of those services I paid for in the past will be available for me through the misterio press cooperative.

The other big deal for me is that you have complete creative control. I am a control freak, so I love that! You pick the title and you have the final say in editorial changes and cover art. I’ve heard horror stories about authors who were forced to change things they really didn’t want to change, and I was very much afraid that would happen with Multiple Motives. If a publisher’s editor had insisted that I create sexual energy between Kate and Rob, that would have been a deal breaker. Then the book would have become just another tawdry example of how unhealthy humans can be. I wanted it to provide an example how platonic friendships can be healthy.

What’s the worst thing? The promotional stuff is very time-consuming, but these days traditionally-published authors are expected to participate in social media, so I’m really not doing all that much more than I would be doing anyway. And it’s fun to connect with people all over the world. I’ve gotten some terrific support from other authors, like you, Stacy, through social media. So I’m not complaining too loud about the time spent on Twitter and Facebook and such.

Are you planning anything exciting for Family Fallacies?

Actually yes, misterio press in having a contest, to celebrate the book’s release. Anyone who comments here will have their name put in the hat to win a free three-book set of the series to date. Then if they go to our blog at and read about how ghosts might just be capable of getting jealous, we’ll put their names in the hat again. And if they stop by any of the rest of my blog stops this week and comment there, yet another entry goes into the hat, up to six maximum.

The winner will be chosen at midnight Friday and announced at each of the blogs, including ours, on Saturday.

Last but not least, what do you do when you’re not writing? Favorite book? Movie? Vacation?

*laughs*  Mostly I sleep, and often not enough of that. Writing has taken over my life the last couple years. My husband looks at me funny when I show up at the dinner table–he’s the cook in the family–as if to say, “ Do I know you?”

But I do try to carve out time for reading. It is my favorite form of relaxation. I try to read a lot of indie writers now, both to support them and to see what exciting things they are doing.

And my husband and I love to travel. We just got back from a trip to Alaska. What a breathtakingly beautiful state! I hope to have my pictures up on Facebook soon. Just hasn’t made it to the top of the to-do list yet.

Thanks so much for talking with me today, Kassandra!

I’ve really enjoyed it. You are a gem, Stacy, for having me! I hope you’ll come visit me and Shannon soon.

And thanks to all your followers and friends for stopping by. Good luck in the contest!

Oops, almost forgot. Here are the rest of the blog stops this week:

Tuesday, 6/12 – Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love? – Rhonda Hopkins lets me get serious about some, well, serious stuff, at

Wednesday, 6/13 – “Don’t Hate Me Because I’m Beautiful” – Lightening things up a bit as I talk about body image and self-esteem as the guest of Alica McKenna Johnson at

Thursday, 6/14 – A Check-Up From the Neck Up – Hanging out with Ginger Calem, of world-renowned Writer’s Butt Wednesdays fame, and sharing some tips for maintaining your mental health, at

Friday, 6/15 – Chatting with Jennifer L. Oliver about writing, eating and puppy dogs (no puppy dogs will be harmed in the process) at

Kassandra Lamb’s Bio

Psychology and writing, or writing and psychology, if you will, have always vied for number one on Kassandra Lamb’s Greatest Passions list. In her youth, she had to make a decision between writing and paying the bills. Partial to heat, electricity and food, she studied psychology.

Now retired from a career as a psychotherapist and college professor, she spends most of her time in an alternate universe in which her protagonist, Kate Huntington, is always the kind, generous and insightful person that she wishes she were.

When not at her computer, transported in mind and spirit into Kate’s world, she lives in Florida and Maryland, with her husband and her Alaskan Husky, Amelia. She also hangs out a lot on Twitter and Facebook, so feel free to track her down there @KassandraLamb and!/kassandra.lamb.

32 comments on… “Kassandra Lamb: Psychotherapist turned mystery author!”

    • Wouldn’t it? I love psychology. I should have majored in it instead of journalism. One of my life’s regrets, lol. Thanks!

    • LOL It really does, Kelly. And not just because my protagonist is a psychotherapist. It helps a lot with character development and understanding my bad guys’ and gals’ motivations. Thanks for stopping by!

      Stacey, that’s funny because I’ve often wondered what direction my life would have gone if I had studied journalism.

  1. Coleen Patrick

    Great interview and story–I love reading about how she met Shannon and how misterio press was born! 🙂
    Here’s to a successful blog tour!

    • Me, too. Love the idea of misterio press, too. I think it’s a great asset for indie writers, especially those just embarking on their publication path. Thanks, Coleen.

    • Thanks, Coleen! I really enjoyed revisiting that wonderful evening when a friendship was born and the seed was planted for our new venture.

  2. Sounds like such a fresh, richly layered book! I’m a total psychology nut myself (my schooling is in psych, too, Kassandra) and I love books that dive into any and all psychological aspects. Can’t wait to get started on this series! adriana at adrianaryan dot com

    • It does, doesn’t it? All three of them are in my immediate TBR list. I’m a psychology nut, too, and wish I’d gone into that field. Thanks!

  3. Your names are in the hat, Louise and Adriana. Since you both have psychology backgrounds, I think you will particularly enjoy these books. I myself love stories with a psychological layer to them, but they are still a good, entertaining read.

    Hey, you all, don’t forget to stop by and comment so you get a second entry in the contest.

    (You notice I say, ‘you all,’ and not ‘y’all’ most of the time. That’s because I’m from Maryland and we’re not quite sure whether we’re northerners or southerners.) 🙂

  4. Great interview! I love those little miracles. They tend to happen when we’ve worked our butts off. It takes a driven, passionate person to recognize them when they arise. So glad you went to that conference and have joined the WANA gang, Kassandra! Best wishes for much, continual success!

  5. Shannon Esposito

    Great interview, Stacy!

    Yep, we could both be still querying but so glad we met and jumped into this crazy self-publishing thing together. Of course, my hubby’s support has bit him in the butt now because he said I could have a mastiff if I made enough with my books to buy a puppy and pay for it’s first vet bills. I did that in three months 🙂

    Don’t put my name in the hat, I’ve already read them! All great, but this one is my favorite so far!

    • Thanks, Shannon. I really enjoyed it, and I’m very excited to hear more about misterio press. It sounds like a great opportunity for self-published authors. Congrats on the great sales!

  6. Hi Stacy, Loved your interview with Kassandra. You managed to pack a lot of information in a small space (the true mark of a good interviewer!). Kassandra’s mystery series also is chock-full of twists and turns, many of which have to do with the unknown reaches of the human mind. I’ve just downloaded “Family Fallacies” and am really looking forward to a fun read. Best of luck for a smashing blog tour, Kassandra!

    • Hi, JoAnn! So glad you enjoyed it. I always get nervous about interviews, but Kassandra put a lot of thought into her answers. I’m really looking forward to digging into her series. Thanks!

  7. This description really appealed to me, “My goal is to entertain first and foremost, but also to educate a bit along the way. As a reader, I love that kind of novel myself–a book that provides good entertainment and escapism, but I also know some things when I put it down that I didn’t know before, whether it’s about a certain occupation or a time in history or whatever.”

    I majored in Social Psychology for my undergraduate degree, so I’m endlessly fascinated by what makes people tick, and I want the books I read to do just what you said–entertain by also educate. Those are the ones that I’ll read a second or a third time.

    Thanks for bringing us this great interview with Kassandra, Stacy!

    • Thanks for stopping in, Marcy! (Your name is in the hat) I have my advance readers and editor specifically watch for signs that I am being too long-winded and professorial (or preachy, as my husband calls it). I want the reader to feel like they are learning interesting things with no effort on their part.

    • 🙂 I felt the same, Marcy. Social Psychology sounds really interesting. I don’t remember Drake having that one. I majored in journalism with a minor in sociology and wish I’d gone into psych. I’m the same way – I want to be educated by the books as well.

      You’re welcome. Glad you enjoyed!

  8. Kassandra, when I heard about self-publishing, I had the same response as you. Something just clicked and I thought, that’s the avenue I want to go. Kudos to living your dream!

    Stacy, thanks for the great interview!

    • Thanks, Sheila! I can’t believe how much has happened in less than a year! Shannon and I went from dreaming about being published to actually getting our stories into readers’ hands. A dream come true!

  9. Wonderful interview girls!

    And how amazing that Kassandra and Sharon work together! Great stuff. I know I’m late to the party but am in the middle of a wip and a creative spurt. Have Family Fallacies on my TBR pile. I wish you every success Kassandra – I adore psychological thrillers.

    Well done, Stacy.

  10. lynnkelleyauthor

    Wow, Kassandra, all that you’ve accomplished in a year is quite impressive. Congrats on your new release and on starting up your own press with Shannon. Awesome!

    Stacy, great interview!

  11. Thanks, CC and Lynn, for stopping by! Actually if I hadn’t gone to that conference I probably wouldn’t be using social media (Shannon’s my coach) and I wouldn’t have found the WANA group. Don’t like to contemplate how different my life would be right now, not to mention I would have missed out on a great friendship!

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