Comments on: The Benefits of Embracing Bad Reviews https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625 Twisted Minds and Dark Places Wed, 04 Sep 2013 03:17:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.2 By: beverlydiehl https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5342 Wed, 04 Sep 2013 03:17:46 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5342 Well I’m one of the “even a book like Gone Girl” haters, because I thought it was fast-paced but ultimately left a bad taste in my mouth/mind, like Diet Coke. Some people LOVE Diet Coke, and some people don’t, that’s the kind of world we live in.

I love your spirit in this, and your willingness to learn from reader feedback. Recently I reviewed a self-pubbed book (after being solicited by the author to do so), and had real problems getting through the first part, but partway in, the tone changed, and I loved it from that point out. Gave it four stars and a recommend, but I was honest in my review about how much trouble I had with the first part. Author was offended and actually wrote an entire blog post about how mean and horrible I was to her, then tagged me on it on FaceBook. Which I found kind of sad and kind of amusing and wholly unprofessional.

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5341 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:20:49 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5341 In reply to Jonetta (Ejaygirl).

Thanks so much for the encouragement! While I have a long way to go, I have definitely matured as a writer. And thank you again for the sweet words. They really mean a lot!

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By: Jonetta (Ejaygirl) https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5340 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:18:17 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5340 Great topic and timely. Your first reactions to these reviews are so honest and human. Your next reaction is a reflection of your maturation as a writer. Taking them cumulatively and identifying like themes was smart. I think you’re a fine and gifted writer and what you did will just make you an even more compelling storyteller.

Thanks for the post!

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5339 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:16:44 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5339 In reply to Valentine Logar.

Please do send them my way if you think will help. That was my goal with swallowing my pride and sharing those reviews, lol. You’re very welcome. Thanks for commenting.

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5338 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:16:05 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5338 In reply to brendat59.

Thank you so much. I remember your review, and I really appreciate it. For me, the only way to deal with bad reviews is spin them in a positive way and try to make my writing better. Otherwise they can eat a person up. Thanks again!

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5337 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:15:19 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5337 In reply to Kelly Miller.

Yes, that does happen. I’ve been lucky with it, but have heard of happening many times. Those are the reviews you just have to set aside and more on from. Thanks for commenting!

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5336 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:14:32 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5336 In reply to tomwisk.

Rejections are really tough, but they are part of the game. Believe me, I question myself on an almost daily basis, lol. I’m so glad you’re going to continue. You might consider seeing if it fits any anthologies/short story collections and try subbing there. Good luck!

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By: Stacy Green https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5335 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 14:13:10 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5335 In reply to Stacey Joy Netzel.

Thanks so much! Yes, you can spot the unhelpful ones pretty easily once you learn to take the emotion out of it. Congrats on the NYTBS list, by the way!

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By: Valentine Logar https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5334 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 13:42:16 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5334 I just recently had this discussion with someone, I think I will send them here to this post. I think your honestly will help them understand the value of all reviews. Thank you for this one.

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By: brendat59 https://stacygreenauthor.com/archives/2625#comment-5333 Fri, 30 Aug 2013 07:31:21 +0000 https://stacygreenauthor.com/?p=2625#comment-5333 Wonderful post Stacy! I admire you for being able to face up to bad reviews, even though they hurt – I am only a reader, I was one of your 4 star reviews on Goodreads and thoroughly enjoyed the story, but I wish more authors were like you. I feel authors will be respected more by their readers when they “go with the flow” and I guess, learn by perceived mistakes. All the best for your future writing, and I’ll definitely be reading more of you 🙂

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